Most homeowners who fall behind on their mortgage payments try to ignore the problem and hope things will eventually straighten out. This is actually a big mistake the worst thing they can do. It is a form of denial. Ignoring the problem will not make it go away.
Denial is a natural human reaction, but avoiding the issue is counterproductive when the foreclosure clock is ticking. So what do you do when you fall behind on your mortgage payment?
Tips to help stop foreclosure
#1 Tell the truth. Call your lender and be honest about your situation even if you have to tell on yourself for overspending. This may be humbling, but it is the mature, responsible way to handle any problem in life with honesty and integrity.
#2 Ask for suggestions. Invite your lender to offer advice on how to get back on track. These days, lenders get innumerous calls from distressed homeowners. Most lenders now have valuable resources to help you get a handle on your finances and save your home from foreclosure.
#3 Write it down. After you make the call to your lender, write a letter to your lender about the talk you just had. Include the date, the name of the person with whom you spoke, and a summary of what was discussed. You will mail this letter to the lender along with the information below.
#4 Open your books. On a piece of paper, write down your expenses and your income. Make a budget. Add up every check you have written, all your ATM withdrawals, and credit charges all your bills. Send it to the bank along with the letter.
#5 Tighten your belt. Resolve that you will STOP unnecessary spending. This may mean denying yourself some extras for awhile. You may have to take a temporary break from eating out and going to the movies. Cutting out a few luxuries can get your finances under control over just a few months.
#6 Stay with it. Dont expect the bank to keep in communication. It is your responsibility to be diligent when working with a lender concerning your financial hardship. Check in with your lender weekly. Make sure they have received your letter and budget. Ask what other steps they can recommend to help you resolve the situation.
#7 Get help. If you are not making progress with your lender on your own, you may want to find a reputable credit counseling agency or an attorney to assist you.